Last week I was really hurt by one of my friends. People advice you to let go of it when some thing goes wrong but it is really difficult to let go of some thing so easily.
To not to speak about it again, not to say that it was your fault, not to retaliate in words.
I can say this because I really had a tough time executing what I was advised to.
Fear of loosing my identity was one of the main reasons I was holding back on coming to normal things. I have seen some people conveying the message that they were hurt with out hurting the other person. It’s an art by it self. Because you are not angry with that person for having said so, you don’t want him/her to say sorry and keep on talking about the same, all you want is to convey is that you were hurt and still not sound too rude or angry.
Finally I couldn’t convey that and just kept quite. Hope the other person understood the intensity of it
“Khwaabon ke diye aakhon mein leke chal rahe the hum,
Na jaane kahan se aaya aap ka gum,
Ab toh yeh haalat hain ki,
Roye to bhujenge diye
Na roye to kaise jiye”
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